“Reach for the moon... and even if you miss… you’ll fall amongst the stars!”
When I started my studies in psychology I never thought it would change my life so dramatically and significantly, but never the less it did; in an empowering, insightful and industrious way.
I spent a lot of my childhood in an anxious state constantly seeking the approval of my father. Attempts at expressing my emotional and psychological needs, those deemed normal for a child, were met unpredictably with detachment, contempt and physical violence. As a result, I developed a maladaptive sense of the world and how to relate to others. My understanding of interrelating was learnt from this damaging experience and as I grew older my anxiety turned to anger, destructively affecting all my relationships with family, friends and colleagues. However, at the time I was unaware of this process.
To help manage the emotional pain of resentment, rejection and emptiness I started to use drugs. Using substances catapulted me into a sense of freedom and further rebellion and before I knew it I was addicted. I had developed a serious habit that was going to destroy me even more than the feelings I was using it to run away from. One night I had a near-death experience and as a result I sought advice. As I started to learn about the effects of substances on the brain, no matter how euphoric it made me feel, I knew I didn’t want to carry on down this road. But what I didn’t realise was that as an addictive habit it was not going to be easy to break.
Как зарегистрированный психотерапевт BACP, специализирующийся на двойном диагнозе, мой опыт работы в области зависимости и психического здоровья насчитывает почти 20 лет. Хотя я работаю комплексно, используя комбинацию терапевтических подходов и методов предотвращения рецидивов, я твердо верю, что клиент является центром терапевтического пути. Я считаю для себя привилегией быть приглашенным в их жизнь и поделиться как их яркими, так и самыми мрачными переживаниями.
Living in a modern western society such as ours has its rewards. However, with the various social, health, economic and spiritual pressures it can be equally daunting and stressful. Whilst some have the capacity to locate resources to cope with these stressors more healthily... others have difficulty responding and adapting effectively and therefore rely on unhealthier coping strategies that eventually become habitual and cause harm - mild to moderate harm for most... but for the unfortunate few... severe or fatal.
I have several years of private and professional experience in addiction and mental health. Delivering therapeutic programmes, training sessions and motivational workshops , I have worked for organisations in both the public and private sectors here in the UK and overseas. These include SW London & St. George’s NHS MH Trust, Asia Health Co. & KCA.
Моя работа включает в себя предоставление лечения отдельным лицам и группам, страдающим от легких и тяжелых форм психических заболеваний; сюда входят стресс, тревога, депрессия, биполярное аффективное расстройство, расстройства личности и шизофрения.
In terms of addiction and compulsive behaviours, I have helped individuals overcome eating disorders and deliberate self-harm as well as destructive use of alcohol, cannabis, cocaine, heroin and prescription medication such as tranquilisers (i.e. diazepam and other benzodiazepines) and pain relievers (i.e. oxycodone, dihydrocodeine).
In the course of my studies in psychology, I discovered that addiction is a habit - albeit a severe one - similar to all behaviours that we do on a constant, consistent & consciously unaware basis.
In other words, habitual behaviours... and thoughts... become so natural to us, that we do them without giving them a second thought; this includes those related to mental health issues also.
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